Q Is it really OK to have an iPod wedding?
A The short answer is yes, as long as you’re OK with it.
The best part of an iPod wedding is the guarantee that you’ll hear all your favorite songs. The downside is that you’ll still need someone to man the iPod to make sure the first dance and other songs play at the right time. This could be a bummer for a guest who just wants to dance and enjoy the party.
Also, if the iPod malfunctions, you’re out of luck.
You might consider playing an iPod mix at the cocktail hour and then hiring a band or DJ for the actual reception.
Q Is it OK to register for a big-ticket item like a couch or a dining-room table?
A Of course! You may have some family members who want to go in on something a little larger. Just don’t have too many pricey items on your registry — stick to one or two — and also register for less expensive items to balance out options for friends and family.
The best part: If family and friends don’t get you the big-ticket item, many stores give couples discounts if you purchase the remaining items on your registry.
Q I keep hearing about wedding after-parties. What’s the deal? Do we have to have one? Who do we invite?
A An after-party is completely optional. It can be as simple as everyone heading out to a local hangout or up to a hotel suite for drinks. This is perfect if you have a reception site that closes early or if you want to spend more time with friends.
Typically, the after-party is more popular with a younger crowd, so if you want a post-reception event that better accommodates everyone, consider having a brunch the next morning.
Q I’m having a sports-themed wedding. How can I make it fun yet classy?
A The key here is to show off your theme but not go so overboard that your guests feel like they’re at the World Series.
The night before the wedding, head to a sports bar for a fun, relaxed rehearsal dinner. At the reception, name your table after your favorite teams, athletes or even stadiums, and top things off with a sports-themed groom’s cake (think a giant football or a replica of his favorite team’s mascot).
At the end of the night, send guests home with boxes of Cracker Jack or football-shaped chocolates.
CARLEY RONEY is co-founder and editor in chief of the Knot, a wedding resource.
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